House Rules
Please read this before you come. Even regulars should refresh — things change.
Our parties are safer than most. Still — BDSM is a little riskier than a bath. A few non-negotiables, and the rest is about respect.
Safety
- Don't start a scene you're not sure you can finish cleanly — the room is loud, dark, and busy.
- No knives with sharp tips. Blunt-tip cutters and stropors are fine.
- Protect everyone's anonymity. No photos or video of people or scenes. Don't share what others shared with you.
- No sex on the premises — national law makes this a hard line for us and for the venue.
- Your costume must cover your genitals. Breasts are up to you.
Etiquette
- Don't interrupt a scene. Watch respectfully from a distance or walk away.
- Don't touch people — or their gear — without asking.
- After a scene ends, give participants space. Approach only when they make eye contact with bystanders again.
- Everyone has their own thing. If something isn't for you, step aside — don't judge out loud.
- No money changes hands for scenes. If someone asks, refuse and tell an organizer.
_See a rule break? Tell an organizer. Don't confront._